By Eric Baudouy, NLP Master Practitioner & Certified Master Life Coach
We strive so hard at working to get what we want. The faster we want it the harder we work. This condition is what prevents us from receiving it when we want it or in its entirety. We are so focused on the absence of it that all our energy goes into this, leading us to having an E-Motion that actually pushes away what it is that we want. We are focused on not having therefore are not getting. The emotion that we have of lacking actually sets out conditions for having want we want the way we want it. We want to have it by such and such a date, at this specific time with these specific attributes and these people around. These conditions leave a gap between you and that that you want.
Quantum physics speaks of Super Positions in the structure of the universe and how all things are everywhere in a world of possibilities. This would imply that when you don’t focus on the how you will get what you want; it can come in many different ways and is much more likely to come at you faster since the possibilities are limitless. The minute you focus on the how you will get it, that attention reduces the possibility to only one way. The simple fact of having that though takes it all away. You don’t need to know how, all you need to do is focus on what you want and that it is a SURE thing.
"If you are aware that it has not manifested, how can you then manifest it"
When we love unconditionally, do we focus on what is or is not there? NO….Since it really doesn’t matter what you get or not since you've already got it, it’s a sure thing. You just bath in the feelings of LOVE. And this LOVE is a wonderful love that just keeps increasing the more you feel it. When conditions are wrapped around such a relationship, conflict occurs to its detriment and then no longer is. Such is the way when trying to manifest a goal, project or intention.
E-motions are very powerful and cause energy to shift. We can use this power by asking ourselves: If this condition were to resolve right now, I would feel……..
Answer how you would feel: Excited, proud, free, at peace, connected and so on. If you don't know, well make it up as if you did know. Now, these feeling, really feel them, really have them course through your body. Does it not feel great?
Though the conditions have not changed yet, by focusing on that which you will be receiving, you have changed your level of thinking. You have given back the infinite potentiality of things happening the way that they will happen. Focusing on those feelings and emotions will allow that which you want most to manifest by coming in to the vibration level that you have put out.
"The path will be as clear as you can see it"
Your unconscious mind always knows where everything you want is and knows where you are in relationship to that which you most want. It also knows the path that you must take to arrive there. It's not a race, it not about getting through as fast as you can. You need to enjoy yourself along the way. Like in all jokes, you want to enjoy it before getting the punch line.
Every day, live in the joy of knowing that it is a sure thing, and since it is a sure thing would it not be easier to just have fun along the way to receiving?
This is Unconditional Alignment. Knowing what is and that it's on its way